A split-screen image with black and white portraits of two women. The woman on the left has short blonde hair, is smiling, and wearing a dark top. The woman on the right has long curly hair, is smiling with teeth showing, and is wearing a leather jacket. Text at the bottom reads: 'Smart Woman. Wrong Life.'

Girl Chat about grown up issues

– perfectionism, passion and purpose –

without burning out… or burning everything down.

So… what happens when you put a 10-year relationship coach and a 10-year licensed therapist in the same room to talk about relationships, perfectionism, and emotional burnout?

You get truth.

You get depth.

And you get a hell of a lot of “Oh my God, me too.”

👋 Hey beautiful

Black and white portrait of a woman with short blonde hair, winking and smiling, wearing a dark top.

A woman with long curly hair smiling in a black and white photo.

I’m Kim, founder of KBH Coaching.

And I’m Nicole, founder of High Performance Counseling.

We’ve spent the last decade helping women navigate everything from silent marriages to “perfect-on-paper” lives that are far from perfect.

If that hits a chord and you’re anything like the women we work with — and have been ourselves — maybe you’re thinking…

“Yes, If I’m so smart, how did I get to this place…

Folding the laundry.

Running the meetings and the errands and carpools.

Managing the chaos.

And inside… flat as hell.

Passion? What’s that? All the things you sacrificed for, invested in, swore were the answer — career, relationships, ‘security’…”

Let’s just go ahead and say the quiet part out loud:

It’s not the life you imagined.

So let’s stop pretending you just need a new planner.

You’re not lazy. You’re not broken.

You’re just too damned tired of trying to be perfect all the time. (Despite what your Facebook page conveys).

So, whether your perfectionism shows up as “being needed,” fixing everything, or quietly resenting the people you love while making dinner at 7:43pm — we see you.

We’ve lived this.

And we’re inviting you into a conversation that goes way beyond self-help clichés.

Join us for a FREE 90-minute Girl Chat about grown up issues – perfectionism, passion and purpose – without burning out… or burning everything down.

Smart Woman. Wrong Life.

Un-Per -fect, Un-Apologize and Un Eff your life

(UH, YES PLEASE!)

📅 Wednesday, June 11 at 9am EST

💻 Live on Facebook — with Q&A after

No worksheets.

No weird breakout rooms.

Just two wildly honest women talking about what it takes to stop ghosting yourself — and reclaim your voice, your passion, and your power.

Enter your details below to join us.

Bring your questions, and your sacred fed-upness. Oh, and it’s BYOB… coffee or wine, we don’t judge.

We’ll meet you there.

— Kim & Nicole

(Bisous and heart-hands, obviously.)