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Intimacy Resurrection for Over Achieving Women
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Does this sound
like you?
You’ve considered leaving your relationship — not because you want to blow up your life, but because you’re not sure how much more of this slow ache you can live with.
You’ve been holding it all: aging parents, a checked-out partner, a career you used to love, and no space to fall apart without breaking everything.
You’re tired of looking successful but drowning inside.
You can’t remember the last time you slept through the night, craved something other than sugar or wine, or felt genuinely relaxed in your own body.
You’re ready to face the patterns — the caretaking, the self-abandonment, the pretending — because you the price of ignoring them has become too much
You fear this is all there is -
THIS IS WHY YOU’LL WANT THIS PROGRAM BEFORE YOU EVEN UNDERSTAND IT.
You’ll unlock patterns that keep you looping through the same performative peace, heal relationship dis-ease, ignite soul-deep connection, and feel joie de vivre surge back.
The Alchemy Room isn’t another mindset course. It is personalized, using Human Design as an awareness tool, to guide you to the tools and practices and “a ha” moments that meet you where you are and take you where you want to go - in all your relationships.
It’s a sacred, no-BS space
By the time you close the Alchemy Room door behind you, you’ll…
Decode what your body has been telling you for years. Human Design is a tool that supports you to stop “Monkey Mind” and reconnect with with what you’ve felt - and denied, or dismissed. You will leave with crystal-clear insight so that decisions finally feel obvious, not heavy.
Transmute old triggers into power. Use trauma-mapping and Gate work to flip shame loops into soul-deep confidence.
Regulate your emotions on demand with ease. This matters because your emotions determine your actions, not your mind. With tools that calm your nervous system in under five minutes you will master the art of response over reaction.
Claim desire without apology. Understanding how your energy flows you will harness specific strategies to protect your “yes,” honor your “no,” and ignite intimacy that fuels, not drains.
Build unshakable boundaries. Turn projection, people-pleasing, and external noise into clear signals that keep you centered in any relationship.
Practice, track, repeat. After 12 weeks, you will walk away with a 90-day action plan, nine months of support and your own personalized guidebook on how to meet challenges. “My Soulprint Handbook”—will become a living reference you’ll lean on for life.
WHAT’S INSIDE
12 core modules blending Human Design + Therapeutic wisdom from two experienced, licensed guides. Self-paced teachings guide you through the steps. Live coaching and practical application tools seal the process.
MODULE 1: No More Proving
You are worthy. It’s that simple.
If you’re stuck in a relationship that leaves you feeling alone and lonely—or you’re alone and afraid you always will be—this is where it starts to shift. You’ll begin to see how perfectionism, people-pleasing, and emotional labor have shaped what you’ve tolerated, what you’ve accepted, and what you’ve believed you had to earn. You’ll name the pressure —and begin to release it. You’ll finish this week knowing your worth doesn’t depend on what you do, give, or hold together—and you’ll begin to feel safe letting that be true.
Module 2 — Healing History
The pain makes sense. The pattern can end.
If you keep experiencing the same arguments, the same loneliness, the same ache, this module pulls back the curtain so you can finally see how that happens. This week we dive into the early pattern creators—the things you learned long before you had words for them. You’ll begin to recognize how your nervous system was shaped to expect rejection, carry the blame, or silence your needs. You’ll understand why certain triggers hit so hard—and how to stop shutting down, giving in, or disconnecting every time they do. You’ll walk away understanding the patterns and exactly what to do when they kick in.
Module 3 — Desire and Clarity
It’s okay to want more.
Society says “be realistic, be logical.” Years of managing expectations, shrinking your needs, or convincing yourself you were fine can lead to self-doubt. Is it really okay to want what I want? In this module, you’ll begin to reconnect with your real desires, not the ones shaped by fear, pressure, or approval. You’ll learn how to tell the difference between a conditioned response and a clear yes, and how to listen to your body when it speaks. Through emotional tools and Human Design guidance, you’ll begin to trust that your wants aren’t too much—and you’ll have permission to name them without guilt or apology.
Module 4 — Integration Lab 1
Practice, Reflect, Recalibrate
No new theory—just coaching, live Q&A, and a guided timeline exercise mapping one childhood pattern to your chart. By week’s end you’ll experience deep shifts in application, not theoretical knowledge.
Module 5 — Advanced Deconditioning
Swap survival habits for sovereignty.
Often, even after all the awareness, you still find yourself reacting the same way—shutting down, fixing, overthinking, avoiding. In this module, we focus on what’s happening beneath the surface: the survival habits your body learned to keep you safe. You’ll begin to notice them in real time—where they live in your chart, how they grip your nervous system, and what it feels like when they soften. With gentle daily practices and Human Design insight, you’ll begin to interrupt those patterns and choose something new. Not because you have to—but because, for the first time, you actually want to..
Module 6 — Stillness in the Storm
Knowing what’s true when emotions cloud everything.
You’ll finally understand why you shut down, blow up, or walk away when things get hard—and what your body is trying to tell you in those moments. Using simple tools, you’ll learn how to stay steady instead of spiraling. If you’re in a relationship, this means you can stay present without losing yourself. If you’re on your own, it means you’ll stop fearing your reactions and start trusting yourself to handle whatever comes next.
Module 7 — Own Your No
Boundaries create connection and honest dialogue.
If you’ve spent years saying yes when you didn’t mean it, holding space when you had nothing left to give, or avoiding conflict by going quiet—this is where you learn how to change that. You’ll recognize the signs of no in your body. Using Human Design awareness and emotional regulation tools, you’ll intuitively know your limits and hold them—without fear. You’ll start to feel the difference between disconnecting and taking care of yourself. And you’ll leave with a new kind of clarity: one where saying no becomes an invitation to intimacy—not a threat to connection.
Module 8 - Integration Lab 2
Mirror Work - See How the World Sees You, Without Losing Yourself.
We pause new content to process projection, boundaries, and 5-line mirror dynamics. You’ll map feedback you’ve received onto your chart and craft a response plan that keeps you centered, not defensive.
Module 9 — Turning Toward the Truth
Working with Shadow and Shame, Without Losing Yourself
In Module Nine, we touch the tenderest parts of you. You’ll see you’re not too messy, too broken, or too much of anything. This week, we peel back the shame stories—how they took shape, how they live in your body, and how they echo through open centers in your design.
You’ll begin to recognize the voice of the inner critic and trace where it shows up in your chart—so the pain no longer sounds like the truth.
This is the turning point: where you meet yourself with compassion instead of critique.
Module 10: What Lights You Up
Harness Desire, Energy, and Intimacy
Reconnect with pleasure without shame or doubt. You’ll begin to trust what desire actually feels like in your body—not what you were told it should be. Through somatic practices and Human Design awareness, you’ll explore how your energy is wired for connection, creativity, and joy. Instead of second-guessing what you want, you’ll start trusting what enlivens you—and giving yourself permission to follow it.
MODULE 11: Making It Real
Turn insights into muscle memory.
You’ve done the deep work. Now it’s time to live it. We recap the Awareness, Choice, and Transformation arcs using your Human Design Authority, stretch-goal framework, and boundary labs to test what you’ve learned—saying the hard thing, holding a boundary, following your inner yes. With live guidance, you’ll take actions from a place of self-trust instead of self-doubt. The growth won’t be conceptual anymore. And for the first time, it won’t be about “what you know”—it will be how you live.
MODULE 12: Application — The Art of Action
Build your personal handbook and plan the next 90 days.
This is where integration becomes a way of life. You’ll gather everything you’ve uncovered—your emotional tools, your Human Design blueprint, and the patterns you’ve interrupted—and shape it into a personalized Owner’s Manual. With guided prompts and future-casting support, you’ll map your next 90 days based on clarity, not chaos. No more waiting for permission. You’ll leave with a plan that reflects who you truly are—and what you’re ready to create next.
VIP BONUSES - for those in the VIP level mentorship - your nine months of support begin here.
YOUR INVESTMENT
Digital Tier: The Alchemy Room (Self-Study)
$1297 (Early Bird $997)
For the woman who wants to dive in privately, at her own pace, and return to the material again and again.
YOU WILL RECEIVE
Lifetime access to all 12 modules
Complete downloadable workbook
First access to any future updates
No community access (no Skool)
Payment plans available
Hybrid Tier: The Alchemist’s Circle
$1897 (Early Bird $1597)
For the woman who values independence and connection — who wants peer support, curated tools, and guidance without 1:1 coaching.
YOU WILL RECEIVE
Everything in the Digital Tier
Access to Skool platform
Private forum for real conversations
Alchemy Vault: Planners, goal-setting guides, curated resources organized by Human Design category
Weekly notes and teaching drops
Live monthly trainings with Kim or Nicole
10% lifetime discount on digital products
Payment plans available
VIP Tier: Red Thread Coaching
$11,500 (Early Bird $10,000 — by Discovery Call only)
For the woman who knows that personal support, brave conversations, and structured goals — with room to exhale will support her the most.
This is a 12-week private transformation followed by 9 months of personal support and integration.
YOU WILL RECEIVE
Everything in the Digital + Hybrid tiers
3 Private 1:1 sessions during the 12-week intensive
1 Private 1:1 per quarter in the 9-month follow-up (4 total) — focused on clear, measurable objectives
Weekly email coaching — tailored guidance, grounded feedback, steady support
Two 30-minute “emergency” sessions — for when life hits and you need real-time anchoring
My Soulprint Handbook — a personalized map of your design + transformation journey
Early Bird Bonuses (for those who commit early):
AVAILABLE UNTIL SEPTEMBER 30, 2025
Personalized Human Design Report + 60-minute recorded reading (transcribed for keeps)
1:1 Onboarding with Nicole — to map emotional patterns and
key relational wiring
1:1 Coaching with Kim — to define your next 90-day direction
Plus!… This will be yours to keep FOREVER and once a member of the Alchemy Room Skool membership, you have the option to stay for as long as you like!
BONUS #1
FOR ALCHEMY CIRCLE AND RED THREAD COACHING MEMBERS
The HD Glossary You’ll Go To Over and Over
A clean, clear reference guide for Energy Types, Strategy, Authority, and Profiles — plus custom prompts to help you apply what you learn in real time.
This alone saves hours of confusion and Googling.
BONUS #2
Access to Kim’s Signature Digital Products
Get instant access to foundational Human Design guides — including “Just Getting Started with HD” and “The Relationship Decoder.”
Whether you’re single or partnered, you’ll finally understand how your energy connects (or combusts).
BONUS #3
FOR Red Thread Coaching Members Only
Content You Can’t Get Anywhere Else
Exclusive drop: Kim’s complete HD Centers & Gates Cheat Sheets + the full Deep Dive HD Blueprint PDF that teaches you what everything means and how it impacts you.
It’s the private library that makes it all click.
YOU ARE WORTHY
That’s easy to say…
And nothing changes if nothing changes…
Meaning…`your
PRESENCE IS PRICELESS, AND PARTICIPATION IS ESSENTIAL.
Begin now and unlock the Early-Bird bonuses inside The Alchemy Room.
WHAT OTHERS ARE SAYING
Throughout all the ups and downs, KBH has supported my journey of self-awareness by offering fantastic one-on-one coaching, group coaching, and numerous workshops and learning sessions! Additionally, KBH is an exceptional writer who creates written materials that offer extra guidance and inspire you to stay curious and motivated to be your true self!
JBWilder
Kim is knowledgeable, patient, kind and cares deeply that you learn what will support you. She is clearly passionate about HD and this passion is infectious!
Sharon
Working with Kim has truly been life changing to me. She has allowed me to see my true beauty more than anyone else in my life. I am a better me because of her.
Kateri Haskett
My wife and I recently had an enlightening Human Design couple’s session with Kim. Being new to this system, we were pleasantly surprised by how helpful and intriguing the experience turned out to be. Kim skillfully superimposed our individual charts, shedding light on potential challenges in our relationship. It was truly revealing, and what amazed us most was Kim's ability to speak about our dynamics as if she had been coaching us for years despite having no prior knowledge of our backstory. Highly recommended!
Kris Kirkbride, Best Selling Author and Transformational Psychotherapist
Thank you for the awareness you bring into my life with your questions and intuitive insights!
Marilyn
There are not adequate words to express my gratitude to you for how my relationship with myself (and others) has been powerfully impacted by your coaching and knowledge of Human Design as it relates to my personal dynamics and interaction with others. You have helped me understand the gifts I have and the gift I am .... which supports me in how I engage, how I now see myself and where I "fit" into this world. This is peace to my soul. XO
SHELLI
I wish I could have you for a coach everyday because I always feel so much better after our calls.
DE, Italy
Wow! Just read yesterday's daily prompt. I hear Kimberly Benjamin 's voice in reading this! (If you keep waiting for the right time, you’ll keep living the wrong life.) And yes read it 4x. Thank you
AB in NC
Wow I am absolutely blown away listening to you.. Hearing and absorbing everything, like it’s the first time I’ve ever heard it… It’s like I was always meant to be Re listening to you right now, in this time and place…. and hearing things that I hadn’t heard that resonate so deeply. The time, effort, love, heart, knowledge, gift of sharing that is heard and felt in every message is so appreciated..
Debbie
“I had the pleasure of spending a few sessions with Kim on Human Design – and a new world opened up for me. Not only did I learn a lot about myself, my strength and challenges, I also felt understood and seen by Kim – and Human Design. Yes, suddenly soo much made sense . Kim has a beautiful way of sharing the nuggets of Human Design, of putting everything into picture and perspective with a kind heart and an open mind. . It felt as if Kim and Human Design had given me the permission to try out many things, to normalize that – as a Manifesting Generator – I ´m really good at multitasking and that I actually need my freedom to explore new things and places (which finally also explained my travel bug haha). Time flew by so fast and I will definitely come back to learn more about myself. If you also feel that you would like to learn more about yourself, your strength and challenges and find answers with the help of Human Design, don´t hesitate any longer – book a session with Kim. You won´t regret it!”
Alexandra Deubner
