Emotional Authority
The Wave & The Wisdom
Emotional Authority is the most common Authority — and the least understood.
It moves through the body in waves that rise, crest, fall, and settle. Clarity for this Authority never comes in the moment. It only comes through time.
The wave is not a mood. It’s an intelligence. It’s the emotional truth surfacing in its own rhythm — not on demand.
How Emotional Authority Works.
If you have Emotional Authority, your body speaks in movement — not immediate knowing, not instinct, not logic. Movement.
Each wave has four parts: the rise (hope, possibility, desire), the peak (intensity), the fall (doubt, melancholy, reconsidering), and the calm (clarity).
There is no truth in the rise or the fall. There is a feeling, a reaction, a pull. But truth comes after the feeling passes.
Emotional Authority teaches patience — not as a punishment, but as protection. It keeps you from choosing out of the high, the low, or the fear of either.
What Emotional Clarity Actually Is
Clarity is not excitement, not certainty, not relief. Clarity feels like neutrality — a quiet knowing, a soft exhale, a steady “yes,” or a clean “no.” No intensity. No pressure. Just truth.
This neutrality is the emotional equivalent of clear water — undisturbed, easy to see through.
How Emotional Authority Shapes Relationships
With Emotional Authority, your wave is always broadcasting. Others feel it — especially those with open Solar Plexus centers. Your emotional weather becomes the room’s emotional weather.
Unconscious waves create confusion. Conscious waves create connection. When you know your wave, you can name it, own it, and move with it. Your relationships shift from reactive to responsive. You stop looking at external sources for your lows, promising too much from your highs, collapsing into meaning-making, taking things personally, or rushing decisions to escape discomfort.
And you begin communicating with honesty, letting emotion move without making it a problem, giving others space to regulate instead of absorb, choosing partners who don’t get lost in your wave, and inviting clarity instead of chasing it. When Emotional Authority matures, intimacy becomes steadier, deeper, and more honest.
Having a Partner With an Undefined Solar Plexus
They feel the wave — but it’s not theirs. They amplify it, feel it bigger, and often think it’s their fault. They may people-please, over-accommodate, walk on eggshells, avoid conflict, shut down to stay “safe,” or feel overwhelmed by emotional intensity.
None of this supports true connection.
The Integration
Emotional Authority is an emotional education — a slow unfolding, a return to truth after the wave moves through. You aren’t meant to control your emotions. You’re meant to understand them.
The wave isn’t in your way. It’s your way.