Transit Tonic for June
Transit Dates: June 1 - 7, 2025
Gate 35 - Hunger, Adventure, Boundlessness
Sounds Like a Harlequin Romance Novel, Right?
Gate 35 — The Gate of Change
Center: Throat
Connects to: Gate 36 in the Solar Plexus
Forms: Channel 35/36 – The Channel of Transience
This is a manifesting channel that moves emotional energy into expression through experience.
Welcome to the month of June - and brace yourself for life.
The energy that pulls us to hunger and desire and fear. How do we approach balancing that hunger for something, in a way that keeps us motivated to move forward, but not so inebriated with the movement itself?
How do we allow openness to what will come without getting lost in fear? If change is the only “constant” in life, how do we move through the shadow of hunger into the gift this energy offers us - Adventure - so that we grow into its highest potential - Boundlessness.
We cling to the familiar because our brain pushes us to rationalize and “think” through things. This isn’t a thought process rooted in truth as much as acceptance and approval and guarantees. Life offers none of these things.
The energy in this gate is about transition, change. How do you experience change?
I had an interesting conversation yesterday with someone who knows me well. He said I would never enjoy the approval of others because I was a risk taker. Risk takers are not logical, so they often remain mysterious to and misunderstood by those who can’t grasp what motivates a risk taker.
For example, so many people asked me why I moved to Paris. And each time I found myself mentally swirling with answers. All of which were true. Many were too complicated and boring to satisfy what I felt they were really asking me.
The question, from my perception, wasn’t “why” as much as “how?”
How could I just pull up and go?
How could I rationalize my actions ?
How did I ever think of doing it?
So, every time I was asked that question, my response became “why not?”
Not to be arrogant or cavalier. But every answer I could have given them eventually wound around to the same conclusion - why not?
And that is really the question we get to ask ourselves everyday - why not?
Why not listen to my intuition and turn left here instead of the right I normally take?
Why not tell my partner how I really feel?
Why not say hello to a stranger?
Why not take a nap?
Why not change my mind? Or my plans?
Find YOUR answer to those questions - or any others that pop up and you will have a deeper understanding of this Gate’s energy.
Everything about this gate is about the journey through life - seeing days as a series of transformative events that mold us, that change our perception, our concepts.
What are you open to seeing for the next few days?
How This Energy Might Be Felt:
Restlessness. You might feel an urge for something new — a new experience, conversation, purchase, even a location.
Impatience with routine. Repetition may feel dull or suffocating.
Emotional impulsivity. Especially if you have undefined or open emotional centers, this gate can provoke snap decisions or regrets when chasing stimulation.
A desire to narrate your life. Since it’s in the Throat center, there’s pressure to talk about your experiences — to turn life into a story.
Dissatisfaction with what is. The hunger here isn’t always logical — you might crave change just to feel something.
💡 Ways to Work With Gate 35 Energy:
1. Track your urges.
Instead of acting immediately, write them down. Let 24 hours pass (especially if you’re emotional authority). What’s still calling to you?
2. Create micro-adventures.
This energy doesn’t require a plane ticket. A new route to work, a conversation with a stranger, a new flavor of tea — these meet the hunger without blowing up your life.
3. Reframe the discomfort.
When boredom arises, try this question:
→ What’s this craving trying to teach me?
That reframe can shift you from restlessness into curiosity.
4. Honor endings.
Gate 35 doesn’t just initiate change — it ends things. Let yourself release what no longer fits. The gift of adventure requires room to move.
5. Journal the “why nots.”
Like you said — it’s not about rationalizing the action. It’s about excavating the truth inside.
→ What is my “why not” trying to set free?
6. Be mindful of over-promising.
This gate can get swept up in wanting everything. Pause before making commitments that come from adrenaline, not alignment.
Transit Dates: June 7 - 12, 2025
Gate 45 - The Gathering
Gate 35 — The Gate of Change
Center: Throat
Connects to: Gate connects to Gate 21 in the Ego/Will Center
Forms: Channel 21-45, also known as:
“The Day I Realized I Was Acting… and Other Awkward, Beautiful Moments of Becoming”
This channel is often active in people who are entrepreneurial, protective providers, or material leaders who feel called to take charge of and speak for their community or group — but only when resources are balanced with trust and not manipulated by fear or control.
I used to have a nagging voice that wanted me to believe something was wrong with me. Like somehow I’d miscast myself in a role I couldn’t play.
Why?
Everywhere I looked what I saw were “other people” gliding through life posting selfies on FB of their “day” – lovely, heart-warming posts; some raw, real, stories of loss or vibrant shares of success and achievement. Reels on the funny side - hilariously “magical” pets and adorable children (or grands.)
My Thoughts – how do they do it? No, for real.
Literally, how the hell do they spend five hours in meditation, prayer and/or contemplation a day, go on these amazing trips, keep up with friends lives (not just birthdays), and still manage to stay in shape, meet the needs of all their loved ones, do something to keep the lights on, have a spotless house, perfect skin, white teeth, all while cleaning, cooking, managing and oh, I don’t know, sleeping and showering?
How – maybe because that is how most of the world is designed to operate and move through life. I’m not.
I wasn’t made for the part.
But I was burning out trying to be like everyone else who seemed to have it all going. I was mimicking, playing a role I was not designed for. Imitating anyone I read about.
I am not a group person. So how do I contribute to a community if I am not in the same play, reading from the same script?
For a long time I was ashamed of being called a “lone wolf.” It doesn’t evoke favorable images. And yet, that is exactly who I am. And who I’m designed to be.
I realized that all those glimpses of others is just like a play, entire lives filtered down to moments that convince us that is who we “should” be too.
Each one of us is the author, director, producer and star of our very own show. And we are each here to do it “our” way.
Life, our life, is played out in thousands of imperceptibly tiny choices we make out of habit or patterning, without understanding what drives them.
Want to know what that is? Emotions. And if we are trying to follow someone else’s script, those emotions are driven by fear.
Everything we do – we do to feel a certain way. Or, to avoid feeling a certain way. We want to be accepted, liked, appreciated, loved, successful, accomplished - so we try to do what other “successful” accomplished people tell us we should do.
We take on a role, hoping for a standing ovation, hoping to be the star. And, we believe we are doing the “things” we are supposed to do.
We aren’t. Our emotions drive the drama.
And all those things that we are convinced are responsible for ruining the show, our show, are really just the props - the people, things, and choices we’ve made, that we react to.
We like to believe that if we change the props the play will get better.
If only…
And, the reason we started playing the role we are currently in is because we believed it would create the feelings we wanted to feel.
So rather than changing what everyone sees - the stage, the house, the job, where we live, what we do –
What that Standing “O” Feeling?
Get in the role you were born to play. Stop following someone else's script for your life.
Wonder how that happens?
Enter Drama Coach – best known as Self Awareness - stage left, accompanied by its assessment assistant – Human Design.
None of us see how terribly miscast we are until we see who we are. Sometimes that occurs when we are faced with a life changing event. Something that stops us in our tracks and forces us to look at what isn’t working.
But we don’t have to wait to be “booed” off stage or something awful to make that happen.
A conscious decision to dive into what we’ve been willing to play along with can be the curtain call that brings us into the spotlight.
The moment I understood that being a lone wolf is not about being alone, or not needing others, or or not contributing to the team, community and the whole, it is simply about non-conformity that doesn’t work for me.
I stopped worrying about how my life looked on the outside.
That’s when the inside became a whole lot juicier.
You are Oscar worthy, dear one. You were born to strut the red carpet, turn heads, have a star on Hollywood Boulevard and bring the house down, or whatever the equivalent of that feeling is for you. When you are living the role you were created for you shine.
Why am I dragging all these “showy” metaphors up? Because June 7th we enter into an energy of collection, collecting evidence of your ability, self worth, value, contribution.
Gate 45 – The Gathering is all about “getting.”
The drive to “get” — attention, recognition, control, security — will get loud this week.
But Gate 45 isn’t asking you to grab. It’s asking you to gather. In leadership. In belief. In awareness of who you are. In clarity. In truth. It will ask you to step forward and lead – yes – lead.
Often referred to as the energy of the King or Queen -its highest expression is the energy of the ruler who gathers for the good of the community – benevolence, regal contribution on behalf of all.
It happens to be my unconscious sun sign. So I am quite familiar with its shadow expression -Dominion. A mindset that fears wants to dominate, compete, covet, possess. Take a look at the news and you will see this in action.
Acknowledging that shadow, owning the fear is the path to communion, generosity, grace, acceptance that all things come in a spectrum of light to dark.
So, if you’ve been playing a role in life that isn’t yours to play, you may notice that mindset too – you may find yourself jealous of another. You may suddenly fear that you can’t have what you most want.
Own it. Embrace it, forgive it, move through it.
Coming from Throat energy - you may feel you need to speak, to be heard.
Pause – breathe. Find your true voice. And what you have to say will be heard.
Ask - What role would I CHOOSE TO PLAY if I knew that everything would be okay, better than okay, wonderful?
This Gate will ask us to step into our potential.
To play the role that works for us so that we can bring what only we can bring.
Remember those voices that told me I was getting it all wrong? They were right. I was. I’ve released any shame I once felt about saying that. I wasn’t failing because of what I was doing. I was failing at trying to be who I wasn’t.
I discovered the Peace I sought was not created outside of me, it is a divine gift granted to me when I play the role I was born into.
Because in truth, the only thing we ever have any Dominion over is our reaction to what happens in our life. C’est tout.
Maybe this week is your cue to walk off the wrong stage and audition for the part that’s been waiting for you.
I’ll be live on June 11, talking about what it means to lead your life from the inside out — with the spotlight on your own truth. If you’re ready…
So, as you move through this next week, this is my invitation to you – notice – what stage are you on, what role are you playing – and step into your rightful place.
✦ Transit Ending – Gate 45
As the Full Moon rises on June 11, we enter the energy of Gate 45 — The Gate of the Gatherer. This is an invitation to reclaim the seat you were always meant to occupy — not as someone who dominates, but someone who declares.
Gate 45 sits in the Throat Center, and it’s here to speak on behalf of the tribe — not to control them, but to unify through clear leadership and shared values. This is the energy of material stewardship. It asks: What are you gathering? Why are you gathering it? And who are you trying to lead?
Theme of the Transit: Power, voice, and sacred responsibility
Shadow: Dominance – the pressure to control outcomes, people, or resources out of fear. Speaking for others instead of from your truth.
Gift: Synergy – the ability to create harmony and structure that uplifts everyone. Channeling leadership into service.
Highest Expression: Communion – a voice that brings others together, not through command, but through presence, trust, and aligned authority.
How this might show up:
You may feel the urge to tighten control — over your time, your team, your message. Breathe. This isn’t about tightening the grip. It’s about reclaiming your voice.
You might notice old patterns rising — overgiving, overexplaining, holding it all together. This energy invites you to speak the truth anyway.
If something feels misaligned, this transit gives you full permission to step into conscious leadership — even if that means walking alone.
How to work with it:
Ask: Where am I speaking out of duty, not desire?
Reclaim your platform. Your power isn’t in “fixing.” It’s in declaring what’s true.
Don’t just gather people. Gather yourself first. From that wholeness, what you say becomes an invitation — not a performance.
If your voice is itching to come back online — raw, real, and yours — this is your week.
And if you want to feel that truth reflected back at you in real time?
Transit Dates: June 13 - 18, 2025
Gate 12 — The Gate of Caution (Standstill)
Gate 12 — The Gate of Caution (Standstill)
Center: Throat
Connects to: Gate connects to Gate 22 (Solar Plexus)
Forms: 12/22 – Channel of Openness (Design of the Social Being)
ESSENCE & IMPACT
This is the Gate of standstill, discernment, and poetic timing.
Gate 12 brings an emotional sensitivity to communication—urging us to wait for the right mood before speaking. It doesn’t rush to be heard. It pauses, listens inwardly, and then, only when ready, speaks in a way that has the potential to transform.
When active, Gate 12 pulls us into deep introspection and emotionally aligned expression. This is the time for soulful truth, not surface noise.
SHADOW / HIGHER EXPRESSION
Shadow: Vanity – speaking from ego, for attention or approval; over-talking or silence from insecurity
Emotional Gift: Discrimination – the ability to know when and how to speak from emotional clarity
Highest Expression: Purity – language that transmits truth, love, and beauty without distortion
HOW TO USE THIS ENERGY
Don’t rush to post, reply, or explain—pause and wait for alignment
Express with tone, intention, and mood—your energy carries more than your words
Transit Dates: June 19 - 25, 2025
Gate 15 - The Gate of Extremes
Gate 15 — The Gate of Extremes
Center: G Center (Identity, Love, and Direction)
Connects to: Gate 5 (in the Sacral Center)
Forms: 15–5 (Channel of Rhythm – a Design of Being in the Flow)
THEME
Love of Humanity | Rhythm | Inclusiveness | Magnetism
Gate 15 carries the gift of embracing diversity and flowing with natural extremes. It’s the energy of someone who can hold paradox — the hummingbird who shows up gently in wildly inconsistent weather and still finds nectar. It holds the ability to move between fast and slow, light and shadow, solitude and connection, without making any of it wrong.
This gate lives in the G Center, which governs love, identity, and direction. When this gate is activated, you’re being invited to love the contrast, honor your own rhythm, and let others be who they are — even if they swing wildly between states. Gate 15 doesn’t seek balance by removing chaos, but by recognizing that chaos is part of the pattern.
CHANNEL INSIGHT: 15/5 – The Channel of Rhythm
This channel is about being in sync with nature, timing, and one’s own internal rhythm. It doesn’t conform to a schedule or a “normal” pattern — it moves in seasons, waves, and soulful cadences.
When this channel is defined, it often brings a soothing presence to others — someone who, without trying, helps others settle into their own pace. But it can also be disruptive when forced to live in too tight a box. People with this channel may be misunderstood for being “inconsistent” — when they’re actually just in tune with an internal compass many don’t hear.
ESSENCE
Shadow: Dullness – Trying to normalize yourself to fit expectations, or judging others for being different
Emotional Gift: Magnetism – Embracing extremes with grace, honoring rhythm, and holding safe space for others to belong
Highest Expression: Fluorescence – The radiant expression of divine diversity
HOW TO WORK WITH THIS TRANSIT
Don’t force “normal.” Whatever your rhythm is right now — up at 2am or resting all day — honor it without guilt.
Hold space for others’ extremes without absorbing or judging them.
Check your environment. Are you somewhere that supports your unique flow, or stifles it?
Celebrate diversity. Seek out something “different” — someone with a view, background, or rhythm unlike yours — and learn from it.
JOURNAL / CONTEMPLATION QUESTIONS
Where in my life am I still trying to be “normal”?
What extremes do I judge in myself or others?
How can I honor my current rhythm without apology?
What happens when I stop resisting the swing and instead ride the wave?